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HOSTING IN THE CAROLINAS
AFS is open to all kinds of host families, 2 parent families,
families with small children, families with no children, single
parent families, gay and lesbian host parents, empty-nesters,
single men and women. Any family that is willing to open their
home to an international student is welcome to apply. Host
families must provide room and board and treat the student as a
family member. Students must have their own bed but can share a
room. Students have their own health insurance and spending
money. Students must attend school. They can not drive,
hitchhike or use illegal drugs.
HOSTING PROCESS
APPLICATION AND ITERVIEW
Host families start the process by completing a Form A . Then
they complete a host family application, provide two personal
references and pass a criminal background check (for all family
member 18 and older). An AFS volunteer will conduct an in home
interview with all family members present and evaluate the
suitability of the family and home for hosting, answer questions
and .
STUDENT SELECTION AND MATCHING
Host families participate in the selection of the student they
will host. Families are asked about gender preference, country
or language preferences, level of tolerance to smoking, pets in
the home, dietary restrictions, religious preferences and family
activities. The hosting coordinator will search for student
applications meeting preferences of the host family and
typically provide two or three choices. The hosting coordinator
must also offer students that meet the local school district
requirements or policies regarding exchange students. Several
school systems in NC have strict policies that do not allow
graduates, 15 year olds, students with poor English, no winter
semester students and no transfers into the district mid-year.
The students selected by AFS have all completed an application
and were interviewed by an AFS volunteer in their home country.
The application process in many countries is very competitive.
The application includes demographics, a health assessment and
physical, transcript of grades, teacher reference, parent
statement, a letter to the host family, photos, English language
evaluation and/or SLEP test score. Applications are screened by
the sending country and by AFS/USA prior to distribution to the
Carolinas area team.
Once a family commits to hosting and the school accepts the
student, the host family and student are matched and can begin
communicating. The host family is required to attend a host
family orientation prior to the arrival of the student. This is
a group activity for summer arrivals. For winter arrivals it is
typically done on an individual family basis.
SUPPORT
A liaison is assigned to the student and host family to provide
support during the year. The liaison is a registered AFS
volunteer who has received training. The liaison is required by
federal standards to contact the student and family monthly and
document the contact. Liaisons are encouraged to plan activities
with the student and develop a trusting relationship with the
student. Liaisons can help solve common problems students and
host families encounter regarding communication, cultural
differences, transportation issues, internet and phone usage,
communication with natural family and friends, school
performance, host sibling conflict, etc.
The student will attend orientations in their home country prior
to arrival. AFS Carolinas hosts a brief overnight arrival
orientation in August. The host families will pick up their
students from the orientation. There are 3 required orientations
for the students during the year. The post arrival orientation
in September, the mid-year orientation in January and the
pre-return orientation in May. Host families are encouraged to
participate in discussions with other families about their
experiences. Host siblings over age 14 are invited to the
mid-year orientation. The orientations are essential to students
sharing their experiences and problem solving.
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